Well I'm so happy to start this blog! I figured it would be the best way to keep all our families up to date on our life and up coming events. Here's just a brief run down on the last few months for you.
Back last December, Jared Jordan and I reconnected in a deer stand :) For those of you who know us, know that our relationship couldn't have started in any better place. After that day of hunting we knew that we had each found the one God had made for us.
I'm so thankful that this man I've known for 15 years is now my husband. He is such a wonderful man. He has treated me like a princess from day one and I couldn't be happier.
Let me take you to our wedding day...or the days before. Our wedding was scheduled for July 6, 2013 and if you live in the middle part of Alabama you may remember God sent a test flood in the days before.
On July 4th I woke up to multiple phone calls from my family members saying that they didn't think we would be able to have the wedding at my grandparents house.
This was my dream location and had been for years. They had already put up the arbor that my dad, Jared and brothers built and things were all being sent to that address, including the 100+ guest we
invited. The decision was made that I should call the small church across from our local country store and see if by some chance we could use their church for the wedding.
I tracked down the preacher, who was on vacation in the mountains, and explained our situation to him, and this is when I love being from the South. Without hesitation (okay maybe a little) he told me where the key was, where the thermostat was and how to turn on the lights and everything we needed to have our wedding there.
My family who lives out there went straight over and took pictures and deemed it worthy of our small
country wedding. I thought it was cute and perfect. Disaster averted.
Well fast forward an hour or two...My dad called me back and said that he and the grandparents thought that we could have it at the original location with a few changes. Perfect! I didn't care where they were having it at that point just pick a place and let's go with it. So they moved the very heavy arbor down to the front yard and the planning resumed.
Friday was the bridesmaid luncheon and rehearsal dinner. Being that I didn't have a wedding planner, I wrangled up a list for the processional and coordinated everything as best I could. My man about lost his head since most people wouldn't shut their mouths and listen but it all worked out in the end.
We got through the rehearsal and then headed to dinner at a local Mexican restaurant. Jared took me to my mom's hotel room and we said our last goodbye as a "dating/engaged" couple. That night I stayed up with my mom, Noni, Granddad and Uncle Shawn putting together various wedding goodies.
On the morning of our wedding I just knew I would wake up to a beautiful sunrise and everything would be perfect...WRONG!!! I woke up to grey skies and rain. We had breakfast as a family and then parted ways.
My sister, Jensen, and I waited to be picked up by my friend Courtney, then headed to get our hair done while my mom and grands and other family headed out to the wedding site to get it ready. All the maids arrived at the salon and got our "hair did" no joke. :)
Then we went to lunch and headed out to the farm. When we arrived it was pouring down rain but didn't that stop my family from busting their butts and decorating for my wedding...hell no! Almost every person who was there, was soaked to the bone but let me tell you, the end result was the most beautiful wedding ever set up.
As my girls and I started getting ready we prayed, along with others involved in the wedding, that the rain would stop. If anything, just long enough for pictures and the ceremony. Well you can probably tell from the pictures that the rain continued during our outside shoot. But man my family or should I call them "umbrella holders" were on top of it.
Wait, back to me getting ready, after my hair and makeup was done, it was time to step into my dress. My mom zipped and hooked me up and my stepmom put on my red cowboy boots. This is when they handed me my gift from my groom. I knew what he had gotten me, a Diana Warner necklace with my new last name initial on it "J" but I wasn't expecting his hand written note. I was asked to read it aloud for the videographer but by the second line I knew that was impossible if I wanted to keep my makeup in tact.
I then made my way outside for our "First Look". This was something I had been looking forward to for a while. They escorted Jared out of the barn, blindfolded, and directed him towards me where I was waiting under some mossy trees. After taking a few pictures with his eyes still hidden, I was instructed to untie his handkerchief.
A couple more pics and then he was able to turn around and see me. That was a moment I will never forget. He looked at me in a way he never had before. He told me how beautiful I looked and how happy he was and how much he missed me.
We held hands and kissed and took I don't know how many more pictures before we started our group and family shots. After the million pictures were over we all headed inside to get ready for the ceremony.
My family and new family learned my drill sergent style early because they started walking down the aisle at exactly 7pm. I however didn't realize this and neither did my hair and makeup girl because we were still curling my hair when my dad said, "Peyton, we've got to go. It's our turn."
But to my defense, the only reason I wasn't ready was because I was told that we were going to wait till the rain stopped. Well wouldn't you know God shined down on us and the rain stopped just a few minutes before 7pm. God is so good!
After my dad escorted me down the aisle while my brother, Tristen, played the guitar, the preacher began his speech. At some point during the first 30 seconds I had a gut wrenching realization, I had forgotten Jared's ring inside the house.
I was at the point of no return, the front of the ceremony with every eye on me. I panicked and looked at my sister, hoping and praying that she had remembered it, but nope. She just smiled and shook her head. I came to the conclusion that we would just have to fake it. Who would know anyway.
After my dad gave me away, Jared and I joined hands and the preacher continued. When it came time for us to repeat our vows another flub up hit. Our preacher, a dear family friend, said "Now Jared repeat after me, "I Blake"" hahaha! Everyone laughed but only me and Jared knew what happened. He had sent us a script from a wedding he did last year in which the grooms name was Blake. He had just simply forgotten to change the name in his revised version. It's something we'll always remember.
Then we prayed and as we had our heads bowed I couldn't help but notice the movement coming down the line of bridesmaids. I thought, "Oh thank God, they somehow got the ring!" When the preacher asked for our rings Jensen did in fact hand me a ring, BUT it wasn't Jared's ring.
My Uncle Shawn had gotten wind of the emergency and slipped his to my mom to use as a stand in. I knew right away it was the wrong one but it would have to do for now. However, my ever so observant husband did not.
As I slid the yellow gold (not titanium) ring down to his top knuckle (as far as it would go) he still didn't notice it. But when we let go of hands, I caught him trying to force the ring down onto his finger and I quickly jumped into my first wifely snap and said "don't do that, that's not your ring!"
He looked down and saw why I told him to stop messing with it. And if that wasn't enough, now I didn't know this happened until after the wedding, but someone arrived during the ceremony. Like they pulled down the driveway during the ceremony. I was so into our wedding and probably freaking out about the ring that I didn't even notice. I was blissfully happy and nothing could ruin it.
Once we were pronounced husband and wife, my man planted a huge kiss on me and we walked back up the aisle to nothing less than the best "Sweet Home Alabama". When we got inside we promptly got Jared's actual ring and gave my Uncle Shawn his back.
The guest headed to our reception in the barn and the party began! Even though most of the beer was consumed by my family and groomsmen and groom prewedding we made it through the whole night with everyone having a good time.
We had amazing BBQ, delicious cake, and enough beer and wine to take down a small army or our wedding guest. I never understood before how people didn't get to see and talk to everyone who came to their weddings or even how they didn't get to eat.
Well I understand it now! I did get to sit down and eat but I didn't eat much. I was just too excited but it was nice to sit for a while. After we ate and signed our marriage license, we made our way to the dance floor and had our first dance to George Strait "I Cross My Heart".
Back in January or February, can't remember which, Jared had come to see me in Birmingham and we watched
Pure Country and both agreed that would be our wedding song. Everything went perfectly.
We had our sparkler send off and climbed into my Noni's old pickup truck and then got back out. Sike!!! Haha everyone thought we were leaving but we just wanted to do our send off while the photographer and videographer were still there.
We stayed until about 10 or so and then being the old married couple we were, we decided to head home :) It was the best day ever and I'm so thankful for everyone who made it possible!